Saturday, August 14, 2004

The Other Side of the Fence

My BF is a Capricorn III and this is what was said about him in general...

His ruling mode is "Sensations". And his strengths are "Professional", "surmounting" which basically means 'the ability to conquer' as in his partner :( , and "maintaining". His weaknesses are "unheeding", "outrageous", and "self-sacrificing". And he was born on The Week of Dominence. I can already see where this is going...

Here is what the book says about my BF and mine's relationship:

This relationship is imbued with contrasts -- its energy can shift from the known to the unknown, from the potential to the kenetic and , often, from the acceptable to the questionable. Harnessing such energy can make the relationship a powerful force for change in whatever social, family, or professional context it finds itself. The Capricorn III's tendency to dominate comes to the fore here, but only if Libra II's give their partners the chance to exercise it. Libra II's are quick on their feet, and their often radical stance can pose a real threat to more solid, sure and slower-thinking Capricorn III's. Yet the danger Capricorn III's face her is more subtuly subversive then powerfully confrontational, since Libra II's may be influential in eroding their more conservative position, thereby freeing them to act.

Libra II are likely to lead their Capricorn III partners through the labyrinths of love, introducing them to manyearthly delights and physical pleasures. In this respect, Capricorn III's usuallyprove to be eager, enthusiastic students. Marriages between these two can be suprisingly stable, but also very broad-minded.

Libra II and Capricorn III relatives can have violent arguments over political and social issues when their respactive radical and conservative viewpoints clash. Such a resistence to each other's ideas may continue for years, and will be viewed warily, but with some humor, by othe rfamily members. Libra II-Capricorn III friendships are less common than friendly rivalries or even serious enemies, since too often these individuals find themselves on different sides of the fence.

In the commercial sector, the Libra II=Capricorn III business partnership or co-worker matchup can be highly dynamic. But Capricorn III's may eventually resent having to shoulder the brunt of the hard work, since Libra II's are slippery customers when it comes to meeting fixed responsibilities and work quotas.

Key Advice: Equalize the work load. Present your views objectively, and respect the beliefs of others. Subversion can be positive but is a dangerous tool.

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So basically it's saying that we are so very differnet and could maintain a great relationship only if he wasn't constantly trying to dominate and control all things that my free-spirited and everchanging personality was all about. In a better sense, we'd be cool if he wasnt trying to cage the bird all the time. So perhaps I need to give him a little talking to to mak esure this isnt what he's trying to do. Because, after all, he wont do this until I let him test it. Which I really dont want to do.

Interesting...

Now only if I could find out what week of Scorpio milky is...


[note: milky has been changed to protect their current existence]

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